Time to Chill Out and Have 7 Life Lessons!

The Last two weeks for me have been verynot caring enough about my business to want it to
relaxing. Since the launch of PLR Monthly Firesale Isucceed. I was working too hard and never had
have taken two weeks off from blogging andenough time with my family and placed too much
marketing in general to recharge my batteries andpressure on myself. How did I cope? I took a break
take things into prospective to figure out my nextand re-evaluated myself, gave myself time to think
move. While I was off having fun, mostly spendingabout my decisions.
time at the beach and teaching my daughter how toNow my business buzz is stronger than it's been for
say more words than Daddy, Mammy and One More!years. I feel like I have just started again with a
I started to think about where I wanted to be in myfresh outlook and a better attitude toward my life
life and how I was going to get there.and goals.
Now I don't have a big life plan at all, I have a generalStay strong and don't underestimate yourself.
idea of what I want to do and where I want to beGive Something Back
but in no way do I have my life mapped like someGive something back for free, just help someone for
people. Even from my days at school I rememberfree and see what it feels like. I'm not saying give
my careers advisor asking me what I wanted to dosomeone a million Dollars or a new car, just a simple
with my future. And to be honest I would alwayspiece of advice is good enough. Give someone some
find it hard to answer the question. In many ways Idirection; help them with something they can't do
would have loved to set myself a life goal but Ionline, a website, an eBook technique and some SEO
probably would not be here writing this now, so I'mor traffic advice ANYTHING! Why? Simply because
winging it with millions of others:-)it's nice to help people from time to time without
During my time off I did started to think about whatasking for anything in return. You may be surprised
life lessons I live by and I found 7 lessons which Iwhat you get back in the future because of it.
feel help me in my life and business. So in noGive it a Shot No Matter How Crazy!
particular order here they are:It may work it may not but you tried, how do you
Chill Out From Time to Time it Helpsknow you don't have the next great idea until you
The time I spent off work has for me been great.actually try it? This is a new concept for me and one
Recharging your batteries and spending time withI am going to stick with. People spend too much time
family and friends have been fantastic. I know I ambeing over critical of other people's ideas.
not alone here when you find yourself grinding awayHow do they know it's not going to work for you?
from day to day, whether you're working your dayNow I am not saying create a product about making
job, marketing job or you're preferred or not choiceshoes for earth worms, I am saying if you have an
of employment we all need a recharge.idea which you feel will work, don't allow anyone to
Going from day to day without a break or time toput it down and discourage you from giving it a shot.
relax is massively counterproductive, and can proveIf you feel so strongly about your ideas then go for
extremely damaging to your heath and business. Theit! What is the worst that can happen? It will fail but
last thing we all want to do is burn out! You will beyeah so what if it does, simply pick yourself up and
surprised at how much your brain works better withstart again! Lesson learned next task please!
rest and relaxation.You never know until you try!
Over the last two weeks I have been able to plan aGet Some Marketing Friends
number of new activities, notes, ideas and productYour business circles are one of the keys to your
ideas for the future. One in particular you will see in asuccess. Imagine all your friends were criminals
couple of weeks from now, a product which I feel I(strange analogy I know) what are the chances of
would not have done if I was still grinding away, sortyou becoming involved in criminal activity as well? I
of stuck in limbo.high percentage I bet.
I know if you have read my older posts I speakSay your business is marketing and you have
about working and making time to generate yourmarketing friends who are successful in what they
business model, well it's so much easier with a freshdo. What are your chances of becoming a success
mind! I'm not saying go on holiday for two weeks,too? A high percentage again is a certainty. You see
just take some time and chill out!if you communicate with successful guys and take
Productivity Goalstheir successes and advice and learn from it then you
If you're not productive you are not producing, it's awill succeed.
simple as that! We all need a goal to set ourselves, aNow I'm not saying go ditch all your friends and
time limit, the finish line whatever you want to call itmake new ones, I have a lot of marketing friends,
we need it. Why do we need it? If you don't setbut I also have great friends from all other
yourself a goal then you find you will have a bigbackgrounds and would not think to lose contact
problem completing your tasks. Why? Because I'mwith them. What I am saying is get more friends,
Lazy! Not sure about yourself but I am and I annoymeet new people in your circles, go to events, join
myself some days when I don't do exactly what Igroups on Facebook, get to know guys on forums
should or say I am going to do. And guess what? It'sand blogs, build relationships with guys in your niche
all my fault, there is no one else to blame but me!and you will find friends and business partnerships
'Setting goals can be hard at first but once you findwhich will prove profitable to your business for a long
your way and know you have a time limit,time to come.
productivity will not be an issue and you will beGrab a Mentor
building products in no time'Free or paid mentors we can all learn more from
My good friend Dave Nicholson actually set me a goalother guys in the same business. I don't class myself
a few weeks ago to produce a new product by theas the best in my business and still learn new
end of August. I know I have the time to do it andtechniques on a daily basis. Having a friend or mentor
don't want to let Dave down as he will help me withwill really boost your business and help you gain that
promotions, so it is in my best interests to reach myvital experience you need to move on.
target.Your mentor can also be a friend. Just reflect back
Having a goal set like in this way (by a friend oron the last chapter you can find new friends within
mentor) always helps you create products faster andyour mentors, join them at events and gain new
reach your goal easier. I know I have a time limit andcontents at their forums and blogs. After all you will
I know it's up to me to achieve what I have agreedbe a student and in constant contact with your
to do, so I will try my best to do it. Bring it on!mentor for a long time while you learn their business
Care About Your Goals and Businessand apply their teachings to your own business, a
If you don't care about your business, you won'tfriendship will grow.
achieve your goals. You really have to believe inTaking coaching courses from mentors can also lead
yourself and give it 100% in everything you do. Noto big joint venture promotions with the course
short measures and none of "well it will have to do".owner. If you are willing to spend the money then
Think about what you would like to see rather thanthe rewards can be fantastic for both knowledge
what you would like to do, and then you will create aand joint ventures partners. In some cases producing
better product and a better run business.a good quality product on the back of a high end
Last year I was on the verge of giving up, notcoaching course can lead to massive affiliate
because I was not earning enough or my businessespromotions and the launch of your marketing career.
were failing it was simply due to losing my way andJust think about it?